{"id":292,"date":"2012-02-09T13:03:06","date_gmt":"2012-02-09T21:03:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.danshapiro.com\/blog\/?p=292"},"modified":"2012-02-09T13:03:06","modified_gmt":"2012-02-09T21:03:06","slug":"startup-dudes-cut-sexist-crap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.danshapiro.com\/blog\/2012\/02\/startup-dudes-cut-sexist-crap\/","title":{"rendered":"Startup dudes: Cut the sexist crap"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last week I was speaking on what would have otherwise been a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mitwa.org\/events\/enterprise-forum-program\/venture-and-acquisition-funding-it%E2%80%99s-new-game\">terrific panel<\/a>.\u00a0 It was Frank Artale from Ignition, Tom Duterme from Groupon M&amp;A, Andy Sack from Lighter Capital &amp; Founder&#8217;s Co-op, and me talking about funding &amp; exiting. \u00a0The only thing that spoiled it was yet another guy in the tech scene putting forth yet another objectifying\/patronizing treatment of someone with two X\u00a0chromosomes.<\/p>\n<p>In this case, the recipient of the bogus intro was the panel moderator, Rebecca Lovell. Just in case anyone out there in startupland has <em>not <\/em>\u00a0met Rebecca, she&#8217;s one of the best-connected people in the Seattle tech scene, with a resume that includes leadership roles at the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.allianceofangels.com\/\">Alliance of Angels<\/a>, <a href=\"www.nwen.org\">NWEN<\/a>, and now <a href=\"http:\/\/www.geekwire.com\">Geekwire<\/a>. \u00a0These would all be appropriate topics to use when introducing someone, man or woman. Here&#8217;s what the man introducing Rebecca chose to say instead (you can listen to the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.danshapiro.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/mitef-intro.m4a\">full audio of the introduction<\/a> for context):<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Rebecca&#8217;s one of the smartest ladies I know, and I thought that she was a perfect pick for the role of moderator. \u00a0When we selected Rebecca and she said yes, she was a sexy single woman. And since that time, she&#8217;s become a sexy married woman, and so I wanted her lucky new spouse to stand up.\u00a0 So we&#8217;ve got not only a very talented, but a happy moderator.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Come on, people. \u00a0Really?<\/p>\n<p>This has been bugging me for a while. \u00a0I was coaching one team for Techstars Demo Day, and they had a photo of scantily clad women (that had nothing to do with their pitch) that I convinced them to strike. \u00a0Two months ago, a company I was coaching showed up for a meeting with me at Google and made a comment about the receptionist&#8217;s appearance. \u00a0Within earshot of her.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone has a reason. \u00a0One person was older. \u00a0One person was from another country. \u00a0It just doesn&#8217;t matter. \u00a0If we keep this bullshit up, we&#8217;re going to crap all over another generation of women tech entrepreneurs. \u00a0And it&#8217;s just a rotten thing to do. Think before you open your mouth.<\/p>\n<p>And if you see someone doing this, call them on it. I didn&#8217;t&#8230; that was my nervous laughter in the background of the recording.<\/p>\n<p>Better late then never.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week I was speaking on what would have otherwise been a terrific panel.\u00a0 It was Frank Artale from Ignition, Tom Duterme from Groupon M&amp;A, Andy Sack from Lighter Capital &amp; Founder&#8217;s&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20,21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-292","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-chitchat","category-startups"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.danshapiro.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/292","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.danshapiro.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.danshapiro.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.danshapiro.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.danshapiro.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=292"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.danshapiro.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/292\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.danshapiro.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=292"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.danshapiro.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=292"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.danshapiro.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=292"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}